DOTISEMA is Dorongan Tidak Serasi Masa. DOTISEMA situation encourage us to do something but we always cannot to do it because the present is more suitable to do other work BUT we feel lazy to do other work AND the laziness cause the encouragement exist. So, DOTISEMA is one situation block ourselves from make two different thing namely what DOTISEMA encourage and what more suitable at DOTISEMA time although we have potential to do both work. DOTISEMA can happen be due to people always neglect or lazy to do important work in their lives although they have many time or enough time to do the work. When other important work time come to their lives, they feel regret for the negligence and might strong desire exist to do the thing that they neglect before. However they may always need to stop their desire for manage other matter that more suitable to do at present.
So, will us only give DOTISEMA direct and will happen more? We have to do something to avoid DOTISEMA happen more in our lives. BUT, HOW?? Do you have any suggestion or plan to resolve DOTISEMA problem??
Before DOTISEMA is happen, one or more factor which always make we neglect or feel lazy to do important and useful work might happen. These factor might become the main factor which cause DOTISEMA exist in our lives. Factor that cause DOTISEMA exist is like factor that bear DOTISEMA. Mother of DOTISEMA is the main factor which become most strong or most always cause we feel lazy to do important and useful work until DOTISEMA exist in our lives. Could you give any sample for Mother of DOTISEMA?
Now is CYBER era. Many people, children or adult crazy about cyber such crazy about internet, laptop, computer, ipad, iPhone et cetera. They use most day time for those thing. Other people might make “watch television situation” as their mother of DOTISEMA. Remember that , some useful work will or may cause we waste our time if we use more time to manage it than normal time. We have to teach our children so that they will not waste their time with watch television or use cyber good or equipment with more than enough time. We have to teach our husband, wife, child and family love any time that is will not waste any time or will not over in use any time or will not neglect any important work. Teach your child how to help their parent at home, how to study nicely, how to have good personality, how to keep their health and how to fertilize their faith in ISLAM. Do not forget to teach how to avoid and kill DOTISEMA.
How to kill mother of DOTISEMA? Below are several plan or my suggestion or opinion on method for avoid or kill mother of DOTISEMA that might help you or me to launch our potential and at the same time avoid any DOTISEMA OR MOTHER OF DOTISEMA:
1= Use your boredom as your weapon. Some of you might crazy about watch television . This madness block you from help your mum at kitchen. However might happen in future that you sudden feel bore to watch television. When this happen, try to make your boredom more strong with remember or imagine that whatever be your boredom is not useful for you, moreover it reduce your faith power. Make in your mind that many or whole television programme are boredom or make you felt bore and illicit, moreover not useful.
2= If you crazy about computer or internet or use laptop, try to set your timetable alarm at your iPhone or your laptop. Try to arrange your timetable alarm according importance value of any matter. The good news if you obedient to your timetable alarm, you will use your laptop or computer without over use or without waste your time or without neglect other important matter. Other good news is such you will get asaidad magnetic factor or asa isa magnetic factor or better is BADARILA MAGNETIC FACTOR.
HOWEVER THE BEST AND THE REAL AND THE TRUE METHOD FOR CLEANSE YOU HEART OR SIN FOR GET BETTER AND BEST PERSONALITY IS STUDY AND PRACTISE TAREKAT NAMELY THE METHOD FOR CLEANSE HEART WITH STUDY AND PRACTISE SUFI IN ORIGINAL ISLAM TEACHING. TO DO THIS, FIRSTLY YOU HAVE TO CONVERT TO ISLAM, BE ISLAM PEOPLE. THE BELOW IMAGE MIGHT SHOW THE BEST BOOK IN THE WORLD ABOUT TAREKAT AND SUFI IN ORIGINAL ISLAM TEACHING: